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Trouble at Mill but Eurovision Saves the Day: Emerging from Lockdown

Social lives have been on hold for many months but things are unlocking at last. I’m pleased to announce that I actually went to a party at the weekend and it was great!. The invite called it a festival – there would be a screening of the Glastonbury Live Stream. Festival wear was encouraged. (Shorts and wellies? Glittery make up? Flowers in hair? It was cold so I settled on lots of layers….and glittery make up! Daughter went with shorts and wellies.

Our lovely hosts live in a spectacular mill conversion in an idyllic riverside location. The original mill workings have been preserved and make a fascinating feature and a reminder of the history of the building.

The guests were congregating at the back of the house, sheltered by walls on three sides with a view across to the river on the fourth. It was lovely to see friends for the first time in such a while. As we arrived a batch of food was brought from the barbecue to a table already groaning under the weight of food and drink. The resident dogs, Doug and Dave, were very well behaved but never strayed far from that table in case anyone dropped a treat in their direction. Dave posed beautifully for a picture. This is so unlike our lab, Buddy who always turns away if he sees a camera.

A large screen was set up under a gazebo ready with a projector for the Glastonbury Live Stream. You can just see it behind daughter on the right.

The music festival was cancelled this year because of the Pandemic, but were to stage a one night event (without a live audience) for streaming. Due to a wide reaching technical problem many people across the country couldn’t get the live feed and we were no exception. But all was not lost as there was another huge music event being broadcast at the same time: The Eurovision Song Contest.

If you live outside the European Broadcasting Union and haven’t come across it before, Eurovision is a phenomenon that started in the 1960s. Membership has now increased to include former soviet countries, the states that make up what was Yugoslavia, also Israel and even Australia!. Each country submits a song and the show is broadcast simultaneously across all the competing nations. The performances are often over-the-top to the point of being bizarre with staging far more memorable than the music, but it’s fun with all those glitzy costumes, weird visual effects and enthusiastic dancers! The scoring takes forever as each nation’s jury assigns their points. There’s a lot of geopolitics going on with that part of it. Eurovision is as camp as Glastonbury is cool, but it certainly added to the party spirit on Saturday,

As the sun went down and the moon rose it got a lot cooler.

More logs were piled on the fire pit and we gathered round to stay warm

This must be the first party I’ve been to in over a year and it felt great. Thanks so much to our lovely generous hosts A and T. Your inaugural Festival at the Mill was brilliant.

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A New Beginning

It’s been a strange sort of weekend. We were supposed to be going to a ball on Saturday, but Storm Dennis knocked that on the head. The event was to have been held in a marquee and the weather forecast was dreadful. It was simply not safe to proceed. The ball will now go ahead (fingers crossed) two weeks later the originally planned so I have two more weeks to agonise about what to wear.

They say that every cloud has a silver lining. Not going to the ball, like some sort of reverse Cinderella, meant that we’d be able to go to a leaving party for dear friends who are moving to Australia. This was arranged quite recently and we had our tickets for the other do, but all’s well that ends well.

Our friends, H and D, are moving to Australia this week, to join their two daughters. It’s a huge step. They have sold their home and got rid of all their possessions, staying in temporary accommodation for the last couple of weeks while they close down all their affairs here and say their goodbyes.

I’ve known them since I first moved to Northumberland 17 years ago – they moved here from Tyneside 22 years ago. We were all involved in the local drama group and have remained firm friends ever since. H and I used to have regular Friday evenings together over a bottle of wine, sometimes with our daughters around (mine is the same age as H and D’s younger daughter).

H is very creative and I’ve mentioned on the blog before that she writes, with one book , Secrets and Guardians, already published online and two more in production. I’ve worked closely with her on these on the editing and publishing process. With more work to do on these we”ll still be in regular contact.

The party was lovely and rather emotional, hosted by lovely mutual friends. Everyone brought food so we had a massive feast. There were lots of photographs taken and hugs given.

As most of the Ukeladies (as we call our ukulele group) are also long-standing friends of H and D too we decided to do a short cabaret at the party and picked a small selection of appropriate songs with a leaving/Australian theme. We only decided the set on Thursday night and had little time to practice but we did it.

After our little recital (with much raucous singing) H and D made a lovely speech about how they have loved living in the village, having such good friends and making such great memories, then the party continued into the night.

I’ll miss them very much – D is one of the kindest, funniest men I know and H is one of my dearest friends – I shall miss her vivid imagination, wisdom, and the laughs and hugs we’ve shared. I’m getting quite tearful writing this!

But to be positive! They may be far away, but I will see them again later this year. Their younger daughter gets married in October and my daughter and I are planning to go to the wedding, and take some time afterwards to have a holiday to visit other parts of Australia. It’s quite an adventure to look forward to.

Meanwhile, good luck H and D! We wish you every success and happiness in your new life in Australia.